Smart Bitches Block People
8:00 p.m.
Charlie texted me today
and I'm about to give
him a piece of my mind.
Or you could just
ignore it? Forever? :)
Or give the mind if
it makes u feel better
But he's not gonna
change or anything :)
8:20 p.m. (20 minutes later)
He asked me to get a
drink next week then
said he'd pencil me in
because his life is "the
same shit show it was
before." I texted back
that we didn't have to
meet and then he made
a joke about me
coaching him.
So I said, "when I coach
you, you'll know. This is
me letting you have your
time and not make me
feel bad for how busy
you are. If you want to
meet, great. If you don't,
I didn't ask you to.
It's fine."
You're right. He's not.
:)
Well I think you were clear so
that's good!
I see no reason to ever
respond again. Because
it's the same thing over
and over. But if u feel
compelled to respond
maybe it's time to
block his number
That's what finally gave
me the space from Chris
It helped me forget bc I
knew he COULDNT call
Ugh not responding
is tough. I just unblocked
his number a month ago.
Maybe I'm not ready.
Yep
I would block it
again honestly. Esp if u
have done it before
Why ever unblock it?
The only reason I
eventually unblocked
chris is that I was payin
5 bucks a month hahah
I deleted his number
from my phone. It helped
a lot
I told my therapist
that I spent an hour looking
for Matt online and she said
that I'm just looking for the
familiarity of someone
being unavailable.
Charlie is unavailable in
his own way too.
Charlie is completely
unavailable. He's told u
he is actually :/
Yes. Yes!!
I gess u have to
believe him
Yes, that's why I
responded the way I did.
To remind myself that
he's not available
I like how fast you type.
Faster than I can think
so you are catching me
before I can make
excuses!
Hahaha
I would block him babe.
There's no reason u have
to be strong enough to
Deal with seeing his
texts and brnging up that
shit emotion
In fact it's stronger to
Protect yourself
From the shit
Would you tell him you're
blocking?
No fuxkin way
Haha
Just block him
U are done with him
He is of no fuxking
Use or benefit
You owe home fuxking
nothing
8:30 p.m.
Wow!
*him
Sorry :)
That's what I feel /)
This is like you telling me
I can't eat chocolate anymore
I just think these guys
being nothig good into
ur life
I want you to have room
for something good
Not this bullshit
You're right!
Shit.
BULLSHIT. I am shaking
a little with the emotion
of this
Does this hit close to
home or have you been
waiting to tell me this for
a while?
I just feel it's the truth.
The reality is that
If this guy wanted to be
with you he would make
time for u. Even tho
that sucks. I want u to
find someone who makes
time for u
This guy is never get
his shit together He is
not the guy who gets his
shit together
So unless u want that in
your life there's no
reason to keep him in
your life
This is a fucking
intervention!
In a good way
8:40 p.m.
I've been there soo
bad.
I have put up with drunk
evil bullshit because I
was lonely
I let dudes treat me like
someone who was not
worth their time because
I thought it was my
last chance
It's total bull. People
meet good people and
get married when they
are 80 in nursing homes
It's not your last chance.
8:47 p.m.
You are a fucking amazig
chick. You don't need
his bullshit
Jeez I'm all riles up. Sorry
babe. :) I just hate to see
you being pulled into his
crap
I really appreciate it. I
blocked him and erased
the messages and
blocked the guy from the
fall while I was at it. He
was fine but I don't want
to be with him and don't
particularly enjoy
hanging out with him so
what's the point
GOOD
8:52 p.m.
I can't believe I've
blocked four people! I
thought only crazy
bitches block people.
I love u babe
ONLY NON CRAZY
BITCHES BLOCK
PEOPLE
SMART BITCHES
BLOCK PEOPLE
I hope you're right!
I AM CORRECT
you know I'm right
because I wrote it in all
caps
IRL text conversation from Lauree Ostrofsky